Whatever realization you come to, good for you. If you conclude that you're straight, good for you. If you conclude that you're gay or lesbian or bi, good for you. If you conclude you fit in an entirely different category, good for you. But it doesn't stop there - if you decide to come out to everyone, great, if you decide not to, fine, if you only tell a few people, whatever. It's not just what realization you come to - if how you apply the realization makes you truly happy in your life, then, seriously, good for you.

And if someone's opinion of you changes because of the realization you came to, they're the ones with the problems.